How to stop overthinking or daydreaming

overthinking

Overthinking is the habit of thinking too much about negative thoughts. We are getting to much engrossed with thoughts in our mind. Over period of time if we keep repeating same thoughts that will start create unease or unhappiness.

Too much of negativity about life will make us think over all things again and again . Negative thoughts are created due to information we are surrounded.

Overthinking can be reduced by becoming alert or mindful about the which thoughts are going on in our mind. Self awareness about our thoughts and justify your thoughts with their validations.

Depression occurs when something feels meaningless. When something feels bad, at least it has meaning. In depression, everything becomes a big blank void. And the deeper the depression, the deeper the lack of meaning, the deeper the pointlessness of any action.   

Day dreamers are the one who always keep on thinking about the future. They worry through out the day. They find it hard to stop the thoughts coming in their mind. Day dreaming habit get worse when you find it uncontrollable. Those who worry much eventually get into the depression and anxiety.

8 Way to stop overthinking or daydreaming

Believe that everything will be alright

Negativity in life is causing us to overthink. We always think negative about our future outcomes.This negativity causing us to keep repeating negative thoughts in mind .

Believe that everything will be alright at the end,which will give you motivation to overcome your negativity in life.

Too much thinking about everything makes our life messy. Just cool down, don't get into the habit of thinking about everything.

Learn to love fear and failure 

Fear of failure is main cause of overthinking. We feel too much insecure about our future so we worry about the future,creating thoughts which are making us uncomfortable.

Failure is the part of life journey so failure will teach you many lessons in life. So don't get into worry because of our resistance to failures.

Learning to love fear and insecurity in life will make you strong and your maturity to deal problems will enhance day by day. Accept your fear or love to grow through failure.

Recognize your thoughts and feelings

When we have so many thoughts in mind we get overwhelmed with the emotions of bad feelings.Thoughts will make your head heavy and dizzy.

When we recognize our nature of  thinking or feelings, we can deal with them wisely. Awareness of thoughts will release you from thinking over unnecessary things.

Understand your feelings due to overthinking and embrace it. When we observe our thoughts we can release it. Intensity of thoughts reduces when we try to understand them.

Accept imperfections of life 

Cause of our thoughts or overthinking is that we are not accepting imperfections of life . We want our life to happen as per our expectations but it does not.

In life there are some imperfections , life doesn't happen as we wish. Accept that imperfection in life is part and parcel of life, simply resisting will make you feel unhappy.

Accepting life as it happens will give you courage and confidence to deal situations .Be hopeful that everything will be fin .

The law of averages

All your life worry will not come into reality. By the law of averages most of the worries will not manifest at end . Believe that all your worrying thoughts will vanish eventually.

The law of averages makes you understand that , 99 % of the things we worried about never happens  by the law of averages.

 Always justify your worrying thoughts .Try to understand that ,will it be possible to leave our worries to the law of averages. 

Don't worry about trivial

We are into the habit of worrying about every trivial things in life. Giving too much importance to every aspect of life makes us think more and more.

Don't have unnecessary expectations in life.Too much obsession about things in life makes you worries about insecurities of loosing it.

Daily positive motivation will give you positive thoughts and inspirations to deal with all life struggles. Keep yourself  inspired to have bigger perspective in life.

Try to step away from the problems . Many people or situations are much vulnerable for problems . Make sure you don't get indulge in those low affairs which may create negativity. 

Understand thoughts are creations of mind

Overthinking is creation of mind. You really need to understand that thinking is process of mind. Too much indulgence of mind in thoughts makes unnecessary thoughts and complications.

When we make our mind peaceful by mediation, thoughts intensity will reduce considerably. Overthinking can be optimized by diverting thoughts to positive thoughts .

Most of us face the problem of overthinking. Understand  that we really need to reduce thoughts by applying techniques of mind control .

Mind will be quite once you focus your thoughts into something else. Over indulgence in thoughts makes your mind active and will keep thoughts going for longer duration's.

Take action by creating urgency

We always keep on thinking most of the things without taking actions. We only think or fear about what will happen. Procrastinating things and not taking action making situation worst.

Instead of worrying if you take quick action then most of the worry will be resolved automatically. Delaying in action and only worrying making you more vulnerable.

Create urgency to take action so that you will not have time to worry about . Too much chewing over problem will make it more complicated .

    

Final Thoughts 

Overthinking is creation of our thinking mind which is causing or creating problems in life which are practically don't existence in life.

Be alert of your thoughts. Understand impermanence of thoughts, eventually thoughts will subside or vanished. Just have patience till your vibrating mind get cool down.

Once you reduce your thoughts in mind you will get rid of your overthinking. Understand that all is going to be alright at the end. 


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23 October 2020 at 05:53 ×

Understand your thoughts..

Congrats bro Pind you got PERTAMAX...! hehehehe...
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