" A person who feels appreciated will always do more than what is expected"
Everyone likes to get appreciated. As a human being we are naturally inclined towards the appreciation. We seek appreciation from others which makes you happy. We seek or crave appreciation to feel own importance.
When ever we get appreciation, we feel that our efforts are important to others. We feel happy being addressed for our efforts. Appreciation is the motivation for performer to continue their efforts with same enthusiasm.
One of the easy way to express love and compassion towards everyone is appreciation. By appreciating others we will experience inner bliss and joy, whereas others feel happy by getting appreciation.
All the great souls on this earth with full of love and compassion, always experience everlasting joy of serving others. They appreciate others because they are very grateful towards their own life.
Why people hesitate to appreciate others?
To appreciate other one need to have open heart. Only pure heart with the compassion can express the love towards everyone. Everyone doesn't have that mentality to praise others.
We are too much carried away by blaming, criticism, comparison. We never keep our mind open to be frank with everyone. Rather we try to find some lacunas in others to please our own ego of mind.
Why we always like getting appreciated?
Feeling of importance
Everyone crave for appreciation, by getting appreciation they feel that they are very important part of this society. If someone is appreciating means they are paying attention towards the efforts made.
All the times we crave the reward for our actions. If you are getting rewards for your efforts means you feel like your efforts are worth to invest the time and money.
If your efforts are not addressed by others then you will feel demotivated and your efforts will subside considerably. Mostly in organizations people crave for small appreciation from their boss. If they don't get any appreciation they lose interest and motivation to continue work with zeal.
Always seek attention
In our family life, spouse always want your attention. If you fail to pay attention towards them, they will start creating emotional drama. What exactly they are craving is the appreciation for their efforts.
Those who don't appreciate the hard work of their wife, they will come across argument and fights. Wife generally crave for your attention, she feels that her husband should appreciate her efforts to serve the family day and night.
Appreciating someone efforts means you are paying attention towards their efforts. They feel that someone is addressing or aware of our hard working.
Show off things to seek praise from people
Most of the people around such are trying hard to get appreciation. To get notice of others they show off things. They purposefully keep taking about their efforts and achievements. Basically they want others to appreciate their success and endeavors.
It doesn't matter for them which way they are adopting to crave appreciation from others. Everyone have that ego which always feed itself by craving appreciation and praise from others.
Now a days, in high class societies people are getting too much mad over it. They are buying all the luxuries things to impress others and seek appreciation and praise. This mentality of show off will one day will land up into the chaos and suffering by losing all your belongings.
Obsession about social image or fame
Why we are getting obsessed with how many likes or comments we got on social media?
Excessive use of social media and attachment with the social image is causing stress among the youngsters. They are posting videos or images to seek appreciation and praise from their virtual world friends.
Social media is too much destructive in terms of misuse. If your getting anxiety for not getting likes and comments then you need to avoid excessive use of social media.
what all of us seeking on this social media is appreciation from others. We are taking extra efforts to shoot videos and click images to post on social media. All these efforts are towards seeking or craving appreciation from your social media groups.
Try to be in focus by controversies
All the stars in movies or daily soaps wants to get attention of public through controversies. They create purposeful statement or videos to keep discussion active around themselves.
Basically they want others to support and appreciate their efforts. They seek public sympathy through controversies. All the famous personality always want appreciation and recognition. That's how they can gain more fame and popularity in their industry.
But those who believe in their own talent need not to create this sort of drama. Those who feel insecure or being neglected will create such stunts. They are fearful that if not addressed by people then they will lose their popularity.
Final Thoughts
Those who are grateful and contented with their own life can feel free to appreciate others open hearty. Appreciation is the motivation to keep their efforts going.
Make your life partner happy by appreciating and giving the attention towards their efforts. Don't seek appreciation by creating the emotional drama, let the others decide their own will.
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