10 ways to live a happy married life



   "There is no perfect match in this world , without our balancing efforts "

Everybody  now a days trying hard to strike balance between work and life .  Our personal  life's  success is totally depend upon relationship with life partner , so maintaining better relationship with our partner is the key to live balanced married life .

Married life is like a bull cart  we have to balance it with skillful controlling rein.  Balanced approach towards married life will make your life happier  and fulfilled .

Ways to keep your life partner happy & lead better balanced married life 

1) Always Express love towards your partner


Most of the time men's are hesitant to express their love for spouse . Actually they have feelings & they do care but when it comes to expressing , they find it difficult .

Make this habit to always express your love & feelings occasionally , or else partner will  have misunderstanding that you don't love any more , or they feel like lost interest in relationship .

Be expressive towards partner , that will make your partner feel loved and taken cared . Express to impress is the key formula in married relations.

2) Give attention towards the feelings of partner


We take too much granted to our partner so we always keep on neglecting their feelings.
Everyone wants to feel important that's human being basic nature , so don't neglect their feelings. 

Over period of time this negligence may turn into emotions of rejection , betrayal , disapproval .Don't give any scope to have more chaos in married life by negligence .

Addressing to the needs of feelings and responding with love and care will make married relationship more thriving .Trust will be built depend on the involvement in relations .

3) Praise your partner a lot & never ever carry forward last day conflict


Never leave any opportunity to praise your partner , by praising they feel important , that will give them emotions of happy feeling .

Praising your partner will build more caring nature among partner . Never make them down by using abusive words .Those abusive feelings will last longer than your fights .

Never ever carry forward last day conflict that will create much more distress . Simply leave it for that day and move on for the next day confrontations . 

4) Appreciate for small things & Look over small faults


Always have attitude of gratitude by appreciating even for small good things . We always keep our mind busy in defending our arguments , rather than that simply let go our personal egos to make relationship thriving .

Always overlook small faults.  As no one is perfect , everyone has some lacuna's . Don't be aggressive towards shortfalls of partner  that will increase more distrust .

Having appreciation towards small acts and grateful for helpful nature of our partner will feel them more valuable and accountable in relationship.

5) Is it really important to you ?


Remember that most of the things we pay too much attention , which are not that much important in our life . But we give too much attention on small things .

Always have conscious evaluation of the things ,which are really important in our life .Not get your mind boggled with unnecessary thoughts and negative feelings .

Don't feed your ego by always making your partner feel guilty for their past deeds . Patience and calmness is key to have peaceful lasting relationship in married life.

6) Trust your partner


Main reason for most of the conflicts in married life is misunderstanding . We keep on bolstering our misunderstanding by negative thoughts and doubts in our mind .

Don't keep on doubting your partner all the time . Try to  build mutual trust & worthiness. Trusting your partner with care and appreciation will have thriving relations.

Not allow negativity to spoil your loved life . Simply sit together over any doubts and get it clarified. Too much speculations will give rise to chaotic situations.   

7) Help partner in day to day chores 


Working partner is too much overwhelmed by daily chores , as they find it much time consuming.Too much rush or busy schedule make them tired or stressed .

Help your partner in day to day chores by sharing tasks & make them less burdened. Helping them will release their work burden .

Having balanced work and family affairs will contribute for overall development of life. Overwhelmed partner will only be in mood of fights or arguments.
 

8) Respect the differences 


Accept your partner as they are , always sit together to discuss on personal differences . Only mutual understanding can resolve problems . 

Don't Keep chewing family problems without discussion , they will only worsen the scenario. Respecting the differences will not create any troubles in relations.

If both partner keep fighting for their own opinion & arguments then no one will win the race.Only spoiled relations will be the final outcome.

9) Don't have too much unrealistic expectations 


Most of the couples are trying to escape from reality of married life . Always accept the truth and don't try to run away from life problems ,as they will not spare you without troubles.

Unfulfilled expectation from partner is main cause of rising disputes and conflicts . Don't have too much unrealistic expectations from each others .

Don't keep your love conditioned . Base of your relations has to be on realistic expectations . Unnecessary don't allow  your ego to  bolster conflicts .

10) One partner should keep quite in dispute


Daily conflict is part and parcel of our married life . Next day we forget the last day point of our dispute, that's the beauty of one's relationship .

Not to make conflicts more worsening one partner must keep quiet , so that opponent will not get energy to boost  and carry forward arguments  . This is a "GURU Mantra ( wise wisdom ) " from most of the mature couples .

Understand the  nature of your quarrel  . All your fights are temporary in nature so don't take any permanent decision on current emotional statue of mind .   

Final Thoughts 

"True relationship never ends easily ; without strong reason "

To have happy married life both partner needs to give their time & efforts to understand each others need 

Never ever have too much unrealistic expectations from partner 

Accept the way your partner is , try to get aligned with behavior of partner by understanding, respecting & trusting each other

Always keep habit of forgetting & forgiving partner for last day conflicts 

Misunderstanding is main cause of conflicts in relationships




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14 August 2020 at 06:05 ×

Great Ravi...These are the secrets behind every happy married couples...

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14 August 2020 at 09:46 ×

Great word's ravi sir....

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23 October 2020 at 05:44 ×

Nice ways to handle family life balance

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