How we are wasting our life

                                                  
  "Time is precious , waste it wisely " 

We have given such a precious life, to make get out of it. But we are wandering and running behind delusional life. Not knowing how to make best use or  to lethargic approach towards necessary actions is main cause of wasting our life and it's potential.

Our life is the result of our choices. Everyone has been give the same time but we use our life differently. We all have that potential to reach pinnacle of success but very few of us get their.Our choice to use our life wisely will make you successful.

We are too much of habitual of living the life of comfort. Our life decisions are mostly influenced by opinions of others. We don't want to leave our comfort zones, so we are wasting our life. We are squandering our potential without using it to the fullest. 

Following are the ways how we are wasting our life

Day-dreaming & overthinking 

We are too much engrossed in overthinking and day dreaming. Unnecessary we are wasting our time in thinking about outcomes rather than taking necessary actions at present.

Day dreamers are not taking actions they just want everything to fall at place without any efforts.Instead of just dreaming, face the reality and take some actions towards results.

Dwelling in past 

We don't want to move ahead in life. We keep our self busy by clinging to our past memories or events. Dwelling in past and not moving ahead will only make you feel bad.

Getting stuck into to past experiences and deficiencies spoiling your present moment opportunities. So let go your past lacuna and regrets or grief to make future better.

Worry of future 

We are too much fearful for life events in future. We just keep on procrastinate negative outcome of futures. Fear of failure without taking any actions in present .

Worry will only spoil present moment. Too much fear will hamper your self confidence. You will look hope if you worry for longer duration.

Underestimate potential - Mediocre mentality

We don't want to move out of our comfort zone. Mediocre mentality is curse for our middle class people. We don't want to try out of the prospects.

Underestimating our potential by saying we are not that much fortunate or only rich people can achieve success in life. Falls believes of our society or community where we grow will  never allow you to try to break social belief that we can achieve riches.

Carried away by expectations of others 

We are trapped in delusional expectations of our parent , society & friend circle . We are carried away by expectations of others without understanding what we really love to do.

They are deciding on how much successful we can become in life. So don't get too much influenced by others they are spoiling our life.

Lethargic approach towards life

Lethargic approach towards life causing us to loose our greatest potentials. Most of the people are talented but they want to work on their talent to advance in life.

Not taking life seriously and casual approach towards all life events will spoil your life. So always take actions immediately and don't procrastinate each and every thing in life.


Wandering without goal in life 

Not having any goal or dream to follow will make your life meaningless. You will be carried away by wandering mind.You will waste your time running behind unproductive activity.

Lack of imagination to achieve something extraordinary in life is real cause of not having goal in life. Having firm goal in life will give direction to life & sense of living better life.

Lot of excuses 

To run away from problems  or reality of life we keep our self repeating our excuses of  present circumstances or economical problems, lack of resources.

If you have convictions towards something then you will make it happen despite of worst scenarios. Lot of excuses is escaping from hard work or dedications towards work.

Pride in winning over others - Ego feeding 

Due to our ego and competing others has made this life as rat race. Everyone want to be ahead of others without efforts. If you always compare with others then you are limiting your own potentials.

Don't allow you ego to be dominant over relations. Winning always doesn't mean you are successful in life, there are different perspective towards success.

Not willingness to face life troubles

Not willing to face hard times or struggles is mentality of losers. Troubles comes to make you strong or to unleash your potential , create new avenues in life.

Stop blaming others for your personal failure. Take responsibility of life and lead life with pride. Lack of burning desire or persistence in efforts are real causes of failure.

Habitual of spoon feeding 

We have got habit of spoon feeding since child hood. People don't their children to go through any troubles that they have gone through. Dependency on others for our life decisions.

But without mistakes and experiences your child will not learn life lessons. Let them go through pain so that they will appreciate their success.Life experiences they will learn will make their future bright. Not having exposed to difficulties will make them weak and feeble.

Finding ways to Fall back 

We always find a way to have something on fall back. we don't want to take calculated risks in life. You cannot discover new oceans unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore.

We always try to have another option in case if you fail. Don't go for another option if you fail once, always strive hard to get succeed in same endeavor. Don't change your path only for the same of escape from hard working.


Final Thoughts

Be wise enough to understand value of your life and untapped potentials. Instead of wasting it over unproductive activities, try to focus on some valuable goals or purpose in life .

Lethargic approach towards life and mediocre mentality has spoiled our potential. We don't want to leave our comfort zones where we feel safe and comfortable.









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23 October 2020 at 05:51 ×

Use your life wisely for betterment

Congrats bro Pind you got PERTAMAX...! hehehehe...
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