How to get over Love & breakup
" Real Love is knowing someone's weakness and not taking advantage of them . Knowing their flaws & accepting who they are "
Love is true expression or feeling comes from bottom of heart. Love is emotion which is created for person or thing as we contemplate happiness from it.
Different identities of love have been evolved over period of time. Unconditioned love is true form of expression i.e. love of mother for her children. Today's world love has become too much condition based, much expressive, materialistic based or pleasure deriving in nature.
Love is true feeling that comes within us but we have created it depend on set of conditions by our thinking mind. Love affairs starts with lust or external beauty. Today's boyfriend -girlfriend culture seems too much happening initially.
Because they stay away from each others and shares mostly happy moments or emotions together. After staying together they observe some changes in behavior which they do not like at all.
Generally we choose partner basely on some assumptions or who share same pain or feelings together. So don't have emotional base relationship which does not lasts longer.
"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck"
Have partner who can understand your feelings as well as who accept reality of married life. True love is about growing as a couple, learning about each others & never giving up on each other.
Breakups or divorce are happening because both partners feel like cheated but in reality they are not accepting truth and running away from relations problem.
Accept and be consciousness that there will be some problems in married life which need to tackle wisely.
Breakup happens only because of misunderstanding or distrust of their love relations. Mostly love affairs are built to take benefits. Having trustworthy partner need your efforts and sacrifice to understand the true essence of love and relationships.
A toxic relationship is when two people are emotionally dependent on each other—that is, they use each other for the approval and respect they are unable to give themselves.
You can’t imagine having a happy life without your relationship
The relationship harms other relationships in your life
The more love you give, the more hurt and angry you become
Toxic relationships need drama to survive. Toxic people, because they don’t love or respect themselves, are never quite able to completely accept the idea that someone else could love and respect them either.
As such, these people need a way to consistently test whether or not the other person actually wants to be with them. These tests are accomplished by creating drama. Drama is when someone creates unnecessary conflict that generates a false sense of meaning for a short period of time.
A healthy relationship is when two people are emotionally interdependent with each other—that is, they approve of and respect each other because they approve of and respect themselves.
Healthy relationships, instead of inventing conflict to affirm their love and mutual support, minimize conflict to make more room for the love and support that is already there.
Love and breakup is part and parcel of life, so don't get too much overwhelmed by it. Let it go and move on. Breakup is not the end of world be wise enough to understand it.
Those relations which can't sustain for few years the how can you expect them to last longer. Better to be well aware of need to let go things which are beyond your control or which needs to be liberated.
Most of us try to hold partner or beg to not to leave but remember that those who wants to live with you will find many reasons to appreciate relationships. But those are not willing to stay longer will find so many excuses or faults within you to set apart quickly.
Don't have emotional dependency on your love partner. If you are trying to find happiness in the person then once that person leaves you, you wouldn't be able to bear the pain. So while making any relationship remember one thing don't give control of your emotions to someone else they are going take benefit out of it.
The healthy response to loss is to slowly but surely construct new relationships and bring new meaning into one’s life.
The unhealthy response to loss is to refuse to admit that part of you is dead and gone. It’s to cling to the past and desperately try to recover it or relive it in some way.
People do this because their entire identity and self-respect was wrapped up in that missing relationship. They feel that they are incapable or unworthy of loving and meaningful relationships with someone or something else going forward.
The matter of fact that many people are not able to love or respect themselves is almost always the reason their relationship failed in the first place.
"THE MOST IMPORTANT FACTOR IN A RELATIONSHIP IS NOT COMMUNICATION, BUT RESPECT"
Final Thoughts
" No matter how hard your heart is broken , the world doesn't stop for your grief "
Choose your true love wisely, don't build relationship on emotions or conditions. Unconditional love accept differences of partner.
Breakup is not the end of world. Understand your love wisely. If you really love and care for your love, then let her /him go and move on in life.
Don't get too much hurt or overwhelmed by breakup, don't make someone your life.
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