Ways to deal with Life Problems & Life struggles
"Life is neither a problem to be solved nor a game to be won "
Everybody faces problems or bad times in life, but the perspective towards these problem decide on how well you are doing in life. First and foremost question comes to our mind is -
Why do we have problems in our life?
Why me always?
Why GOD tests me always?
This shouldn't have happened with me?
My life is real mess?
But by better understanding of these doubts will bring change in perspective towards problems in our life. Ignorance is the main reason for misunderstanding about life problems.
"Life is always about living , not try to understand it , which is beyond our control "
Life is all about experiences, life throws an obstacle/problems to test you during your journey of life. We always get lot of experiences while dealing with or while solving our problems, that's how our life expand or grows in all dimensions.
Life gives you problems to make it happening or exciting so that you will enjoy journey of life, or else suppose you don't have anything happening in your life, you will start feeling bored or sloth, result of these feelings will makes you bored, unsatisfied, feeling of something missing in life.
You have to tackle each and every problem with the positive mindset & right perspective towards life . Almost 90% of the problems in our life will be resolved by taking immediate actions.
We always waste our time by simply not accepting them, So we keep holding them which eventually creates mental pressure or stressful situations. Worrying about unknown future outcome will make problem more complex.
Never ever hold problem close to your heart either solve it or leave it, always remember surrendering to GOD for no -control problems is the only way to keep our self happy. We are not supposed to respond to each and every situation in our life, some of them we should let it happen their way.
Always have faith in GOD, nature, Creator whatever you may call it, because he has created us so he has script of our life, so let it happen the way it designed.
Do you have problem in your life? if you can do something about it so you needn't to worry, because worry will not change your problem situation. In case you have problem beyond your control in that scenario also there is no logic to think over problem, better just surrender to GOD or Creator he will take care of it. Worry will only worsen the situation and you will loose control over situation.
Best ways to deal with life problems
1) Acceptance
We always initially show resistance to accept that we have problem, we keep on cursing someone for that ,so we keep on building resistance which create lot of suffering in our life.
Rather accept reality whole heartily, gracefully which will release you from suffering & you will keep your focus on finding solutions for it.
2) Anticipation
Always anticipate that there will be such problems in journey of life, which will give you strength & preparedness to tackle problems well in advance.
We assume our life that we will need not to face any problems in life. But in reality every has to go through the problems. This unpreparedness to tackle problem make problem more severe in nature.
3) Action
We always seek sympathy from others for our life problems. We try to showcase our problems to give more excuses. We waste most time on holding problem and not trying for any solutions.
This part is always delayed by most of us, rather than draining our energy in resistance we should divert it for fighting against problem. Death of fear or problem is fixed, when you take action on it.
Final Thoughts
"The best way to deal with problem is face it and take actions , don't hold the problem"
Every one of us have problems in our life but the ways of dealing with problem is depend on individual person. Those who are wise enough choose to deal with problem by accepting it first.
Your perspective towards life problem decide on your actions. So always face problem as learning opportunities and valuable experiences you get out of it.
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