" You can't control everything. Sometimes you just need to relax and have faith that things will workout. Let go a little and just let life happen"
If you feel like losing control over life
If you feel like never ending distress
If you feel like losing hope
If you are unable to bear it any more
If you are always getting trapped in troubles
If you are regularly getting life problems
If you are going through bad times then you really need to understand couple of things which will ease your suffering and pain. Remember that bad times are there to teach you some life lessons .Bad times are inevitable for life to advance or progress.
Most of us mostly loose control over situation and suffer a lot .Getting overwhelmed in bad times is so natural and everyone feels the same .But the response of every individual is different to the situations. Those who are mature they have gone through such experiences .
While going through hard times you should remember that bad time is a temporary state which will vanish after few days .Most of us takes permanent decisions for life depend on the temporary situation which you are currently going though .
Remember that never give any commitment to someone in excitement and never take decision under bad emotional state .You will definitely regret with the decisions or choices you made under this emotional state.
Things to remember while going through bad times
Don't feel like victim
Remember that bad times are part and parcel of life so don't have the feeling like victim of life circumstances .Mentality towards the bad times is generally negative in nature .We feel guilty that i am the only one going through tough times while rest of others are enjoying life to the fullest .
But you never know what they might be going through .Most of the people feel it ashamed to showing that they have problems in their life . Everyone tries to hide it behind the fake smile.
Remember that you have not committed any serious crime or mistake so feel like guilty. Have tranquility in the phase of deep troubles then only you will be able to deal with problems.
You are not only one going through it
Remember that you are not the only one who is going through tough times ,there are so many people around you with problems. Feeling of too much vulnerability to problems will make you lose confidence and you will get distressed.
You are the special one to whom life wants to grow more though tackling life problems . Life always tests you to teach you life lessons .Everyone faces this challenge but the time zones are different for different persons .
Don't get overwhelmed by emotions
As you are not your thoughts , like wise you are not your moods .We have power to choose our thoughts .Like thoughts we have power to control our emotions and feelings. People generally don't take efforts to control their emotions , they simply surrender to the situations.
Remember during hard times you really need to tell your mind that you are not the feeble person to carried away with emotions. You got to shape your emotions to handle situation with courage and confidence . Emotional stability is important to fight against any odds in life .
Standstill and be sturdy in bad situations
Those who dare to challenge the situation are the real worriers .Successful people don't allow their composure to disturb during tough times .They knew that on the other side of this situation great victory resides . True character reveals in difficult situations .
It doesn't matter how hard it may seem , you got to fight it back with fortitude .Sturdy and standstill in bad times distinguish you as a person winner attitude. Those who take charge of situation , are the real hero's who can achieve greatest milestones in life .
Don't allow others to take situational benefits
People around you are enthusiastic to know how hard you got hit .They always try to make fun of your situation .It is up to you whether to allow others to take benefit or not .Be wise enough while communicating your problems or while seeking helps from others .
Always pretend like you are capable to handle any financial crisis or life situation without loosing control over feelings .Then people around will never dare to entertain or take benefit from you situation. Tell others only that much details ,which are necessary to get help from others .
Don't lose hope at all
Most of us never want to have any such problem in their life , so that they have to struggle while dealing with it . Suddenly when you face any difficulty then you feel like it is a life threatening situation .We are not mentally prepared for problems in life that's why we suffer a lot .
Remember that while dealing with bad times never ever lose hope .There is always silver lining for any trouble you just need to find it with hope and courage .Never give up easily , always strive hard to fight it till you get success .
You have potential to overcome this hard time
Remember that you have potential ans power to tackle any problem in life .Remind yourself of hidden talent which you have not utilized since ling back .Not it is testing time where you have to take out all you tools and tactics to deal with the situation .
Never underestimate yourself or feel like not having any capability it handle situation. What ever problems you have been allocated are never beyond your capabilities , you really need to use your talent wisely. Most of the hidden skills within you will be revealed during the fight .
Hard time testing you to make you strong enough to deal with life problems
Why do we have hard times ? you have to understand it wisely .Hard times are testing times where you are getting trained to face the life difficulty in future .You will be tested often to make necessary teaching reveals to you .
Those who have faced most of the difficulties are the mostly successful person on this earth. Whatever the lessons life what you to teach will be imparted through live demo with difficulties. Bear the pain to enjoy taste of happy moments. We never appreciate happy moments in life unless and until you taste the bad moments , that is the beauty of life .
"It’s not about how hard you can hit, it’s about how hard you get hit and still keep moving forward"
Final Thoughts
Remember that going through bad times will be the life changing moment for you. The life lesson you learn during this time will help you to lead future with greater integrity and courage.
Don't get too much stressed due to tough times , they will help to grow and prosper in life. Don't lose control over life due to emotional drama .Always foresee the benefits of current troubles .
Be prepared !! Be Sturdy !! Be strong
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