How to win friends and influence people

How to win friends and influence people

How to build friendship and influence people

  • Don't criticize, condemn or complain
  • Give honest and sincere appreciation
  • Arose in the other person an eager or want
  • Become genuinely interested in other people
  • Smile
  • Remember that a person's name  to that person is important , so always remember names
  • Be good listener, encourage others to talk about themselves
  • Talk in terms of the other person's interests
  • Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely
  • The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it
  • Show respect for the other person's opinions , never say you are wrong
  • If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically
  • Begin discussion in a friendly way 
  • Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately
  • Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers
  • Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of views
  • Be sympathetic with other person's ideas and desires
  • Appeal to the nobler motives
  • Dramatize your ideas
  • Throw down a challenge
  • Begin with praise and honest appreciation
  • Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly
  • Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person
  • Ask question instead of giving direct orders
  • Let the other person save face
  • Praise the slightest improvement and appreciate for efforts
  • Be hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise
  • Give other person a fine reputation to live up to
  • Use encouragement
  • Make the fault seem easy to correct 
  • Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest

 






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