How to win friends and influence people
- Don't criticize, condemn or complain
- Give honest and sincere appreciation
- Arose in the other person an eager or want
- Become genuinely interested in other people
- Smile
- Remember that a person's name to that person is important , so always remember names
- Be good listener, encourage others to talk about themselves
- Talk in terms of the other person's interests
- Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely
- The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it
- Show respect for the other person's opinions , never say you are wrong
- If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically
- Begin discussion in a friendly way
- Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately
- Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers
- Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of views
- Be sympathetic with other person's ideas and desires
- Appeal to the nobler motives
- Dramatize your ideas
- Throw down a challenge
- Begin with praise and honest appreciation
- Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly
- Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person
- Ask question instead of giving direct orders
- Let the other person save face
- Praise the slightest improvement and appreciate for efforts
- Be hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise
- Give other person a fine reputation to live up to
- Use encouragement
- Make the fault seem easy to correct
- Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest
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