10 Habits of happy and successful people
“Rich is he who remains content through success or failure”
How we are thinking about life decides where we are heading in life. If you want to live happy and successful life then you have to think like a happy people. Whatever we achieve in our life is direct result of our thoughts and beliefs. If you think like a successful person then only you will be able to achieve the success in life.
All the happy and successful people have some common personality traits. They are guided by the values and ethics of basic personality traits. Why we are not living the life which they are having is only because we are not thinking like them.
Happy people always appreciate life and live each and every moment of life with gratitude. What perception towards life you carry will decide your happiness and success. Happy people always choose happiness while unhappy people has a habit to choose unhappiness.
You have power to choose your happiness or unhappiness. Successful people have that maturity to understand the deep dimensions of life.
10 Habits of happy and successful people
1.Positve Attitude
Attitude in life is important parameter which decide your progress in life. How we see each and every event of our life is depend upon our attitude. If you want to change your life then you have to change your attitude towards life.
Attitude is basically the belief which we are carrying about everything. Negative attitude people will always see negativity in everything where as positive attitude person will see only good side.
Our life is totally engrossed with the negativity. We are habitually receiving only negative things in life. Many influencing factors like our surrounding , news, social media are making you to think negative towards life. what experiences you have gained in your past life also have impact on building attitude.
Positive attitude is a choice where you purposefully choose only good in every situation. those who are happy people always choose to take only good from every situation. They develop the habit to look life events with positive outlook and take positive message from the events.
2.Growth Mindset
What we have been told since childhood will become our behavior. Our mindset is result of the what we have been told or exposed to. What people say about you will eventually sink into your behavior and actions. If since childhood you have been named as "Dull", then eventually you will start feeling like is really I am dull? you will lose your self confidence and you will accept that personality in your life.
Your mindset is created by the belief which are imparted by your parents, friends, society, surroundings, community. What you have thoughts towards life is totally influenced by all of them. If you influence is encouraging then you will make progress but if you are deprived of encouragement then you will manifest failure and lack of confidence.
Growth mindset is adopted personality trait which happy and successful people develop by practice and efforts. Nothing comes to life easily without efforts and dedication. Growth mindset people always take life challenges or obstacles as a stepping stone towards success.
Whereas failure attitude people will give up their efforts once they encounter obstacles. If you want to be happy and successful then you have to adopt to growth mindset.
3.Gratitude
What we already have in our life is always overlooked. We only contemplate happiness on those things which we lack in our life. If you keep on desiring the things incessantly without having satisfaction for rest of the life then you are bound to get unhappy in life.
You must desire best things in life that you deserve before that you must appreciate that which you have already gained from your previous desires.
Attitude of gratitude is important to be satisfied with the life. If you are grateful for whatever you already have then you will enjoy the present moments of life. We always spoil our present moment on thinking about the future desire. If you keep on contemplating the next desire without appreciating the present belongings then you will create only dissatisfaction.
Gratitude early in the morning will make you day happy and meaningful. Happy and successful people start their day with gratitude. They appreciate all the achievement they have gained and think of future desire to get fulfilled.
Once you express gratitude towards everything then you will feel fulfilled and contended in life. Remember there is no end for desires so you have to think about it wisely before contemplating it.
4.Appreciate life
We always compare our life with others. We always feel like others are more blessed and happy than us. Grass always look greener on other side. Simply envying on others successful will not make you happy rather you will create negative emotions and feelings. If you change your perspective towards life then only you can start appreciating life.
Appreciate the life for whatever we already have and don't compare with others. Every individual on this earth is unique and is blessed with some special skill that you have to discover. If you appreciate life then only you will start creating positive emotions and feelings. Happy and successful people always appreciate life and make best use of it.
Appreciating life will develop growth mindset where you always look for positive things. If you keep on blaming the life then you are not going to achieve any valuable in life. Before starting anything you will only find out lacunas and you will not undertake any endeavor.
Those who have got habit of criticizing or blaming are the most failed and unsuccessful personality. They always derive pleasure by finding the faults, such people will never ever work hard to achieve something worthwhile in life.
5.Take responsibility of life
Those who are not committed to their dream will always find way to fall back. Once they feel some insecurity or fear of failure then they will run away from efforts. They never wanted that success from bottom of the heart. They not determined to take responsibility of life. They lack self confidence and dedication towards life achievements.
Those who wanted to become the successful have take full responsibility of their success or failure. Successful people always take responsibility of their success and failure. They learn from their failure or mistake and move on towards the destination with dedicated efforts. They have unwavering faith in their pursuit and they always pour sweat and blood for it.
If you want to achieve great success then you have to develop the attitude of taking responsibility. If you always blame others for your success it means that you have not done enough homework. No one other than you have the power to alter your determinations about success and happiness.
6.Appreciate others
Those you don't love themselves will never be able to love others. If you lack something then you can't afford to give it to others. Those who are full of love can only share love and happiness with others. Helping others will make your life more happy and meaningful. If you can't appreciate yourself then you can't appreciate others.
Appreciating others will make them feel loved. Everyone loves the appreciation that is basic human tendency. If you appreciate others efforts then they will start developing sense of belongingness. If some employer always care about their employee then definitely they will work hard and go beyond boundaries to make progress of organization.
7.They love what they do
If you are passionate about the work which you have undertaken then you will not feel it like a work rather you will enjoy it. If your passion becomes the your job then you are going to perform very well. You will never get bored and feel like fatigue which performing duty. Those who convert their passion into profession are the lucky one.
If you are happy with your work then you will be happy in all walks of life. Your success or growth in career is totally depend on the how much you are interested in your work profile. Those who perform well are derived by their passion towards work. Happiness and success are blended together for the work which you love to do.
All the successful entrepreneur who have made difference in this universe had undying passion towards the work. Those who love what they do will definitely get success and happiness in all walks of life. They are more enthusiastic and happy people. They make others happy and help others to achieve great success.
8.Proactive in problem solving
How we see a problem or struggle in our life? We are habitual of cursing the life for continuously bring forth the obstacle in path. We always feel like less blessed or cursed. But the same problem if countered by successful people will not make them feel like us. Successful and happy people have growth mindset towards life problem.
They solve all the life problems by proactively taking actions. We on other side keep on blaming everyone else for problems in our life. We waste all our energy in resistance and blaming and totally neglect towards solving the problem. While successful people proactively take actions on problems.
They feel blessed whenever they encounter problem .They have attitude of accepting the problems. They feel than problems in life are nothing but the testing period which makes you strong and capable to lead better life in future. They learn from the problems ,they develop character through struggles and bad times.
9.Self esteem
Self esteem is nothing but how we feel about our self. Successful and happy people always have high self esteem they develop the sense of self love through believing themselves. If you lack the self confidence then you will never take any challenging opportunity in life.
You will fear that whether you will be able to handle it or not. You fearful person will not take any responsibility and will feel much uncomfortable to go out of the comfort zone.
Successful people believe that they have power to get success and prosperity in life. They with self confidence and courage will achieve better progress and opulence. If you lack the self respect then you will fear while dealing with others. Self love will make you more contented about your own life. You will never compare yourself with others.
10.Maturity and empathy
Those who have gone through the journey of failures will definitely learn a lot from life experiences. You can't gain maturity in life without going through tough times. You get more maturity once you overcome the failure. Only mistakes and experiences in life will teach you real life lessons.
Successful and happy people have great maturity about life. So they waste their life by blaming or comparing rather they make best use of their experiences. Mature person will always overlook the trivial things in life and will focus only on the core.
They don't waste their energy in unproductive arguments or conflicts. They are wise enough to bypass the unworthy conflicts.
Empathy is the ability to understand the point of view of others. If you have maturity it means you will try to understand the perspective others. Those who feel superior will never try to understand others view they will keep pressing their opinions.
Successful people are very good at handling the people around them. They know how to deal with all types of people.
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