Each person is the creator of his own world
If every moment of life gives you unhappiness, then the mistake is somewhere in your own vision.
And if all that you see around you is darkness then certainly you are keeping closed the eyes that see the light.
Give a fresh thought to yourself
Look at yourself from a new angle
If you put the blame on others, you will never be able to see your own mistake.
If you put the blame on circumstances, you will not be able to penetrate the roots of your own mental state.
Hence, whatever the situation, proceed to discover its causes in yourself.
But they always appear to be in others
Avoid this mistake and it will be difficult to preserve your unhappiness.
Others function only as mirrors, the face seen is always our own.
Life can become a celebration, but it is necessary to create oneself a new, and that is not a difficult thing.
Because in the very seeing of the fault in one’s own vision
The mistakes start dying and the birth of a new person begins.
Stop fulfilling expectations of others, because that is the only way you can commit suicide. You are not here to fulfill anybody´s expectations and nobody else is here to fulfill your expectations. Never become a victim of others´ expectations and don´t make anybody a victim of your expectations.
This is what I call individuality. Respect your own individuality and respect others´ individuality. Never interfere in anybody´s life and don´t allow anybody to interfere in your life. Only then one day you can grow into spirituality.
Otherwise, ninety-nine percent of people simply commit suicide. Their whole life is nothing but a slow suicide. Fulfilling this expectation, that expectation... some day it was the father, some day it was the mother, some day it was the wife, husband, then come children – they also expect.
Then the society, the priest and the politician. All around everybody is expecting. And poor you there, just a poor human being – and the whole world expecting you to do this and that. And you can´t fulfill all of their expectations, because they are contradictory.
You have gone mad fulfilling everybody´s expectations. And you have not fulfilled anybody´s. Nobody is happy. You are lost, wasted, and nobody is happy. People who are not happy with themselves cannot be happy. Whatsoever you do, they will find ways to be unhappy with you, because they cannot be happy.
Happiness is an art that one has to learn. It has nothing to do with your doing or not doing.
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