8 Powers you have to make your life happy and peaceful

8 Powers for  happy and peaceful life

Everyone wants to live happier and peaceful life, but we are finding it difficult to deal with the life situations. Every time we try our best to handle situations, but mostly of the time we fail. Continuous failure to handle problems is making our life more overwhelming. We tend to judge life as unfair and result of it causing things to go pretty much wrong afterward. 

We can't run away from the problems in life. We have to find efficient way to deal with life problem. Your perspective towards problem needs to be changed then only you will be able to live happily forever. 

What makes your life more troubling?

 What driving you crazy?

We do have power to choose our life wisely. We can lead happier and peaceful life with the choices we make through out the journey of life. No situation in life is beyond the capability to handle, actually we are lacking the understanding. Making right choices at every stage of life will make your life journey hassle-free.

8 Powers you have to make your life happy and peaceful


1) Power to withdraw or detach

When we are too much attached with the identity, then thoughts of losing that identity will make you suffer a lot. We are totally engrossed ourselves into the identifies like money, power, prestige, position. When we seek any threat to lose that identity, fear will crop up in our mind. 

Power of withdraw gives you freedom to choose your suffering. We have to detach from the materialistic pleasures which are temporary means to make you happy. Losing them should not make you suffer. There are many occasions where we should withdraw ourselves from the negative influences. 

Power of withdraw will release your burden to win over the arguments. You always stress yourself to proof right, but there are some occasions where you should withdraw yourself to keep relations thriving. 

2) Power to let go

Power to let go is very important tool to release your burden from past. We are too much stuck in our past memories that they are replaying in your mind on autopilot mode. Unconsciously past guilts or regrets are occupying your mind. These past regrets will bring forth the suffering by negative thinking. We curse ourselves for committing that mistake over and again.

Power to let go encompasses the ability to accept what already happened and forgive or forget to let it go. We you keep on holding on past then it will keep triggering you throughout the life. We are not peaceful because we are too much engrossed either in past regrets or future worries.

You have to let go many things to make your life happy. These past memories are spoiling essence of present moments. Holding on to them won't solve any problem in life. It is always better to let go the past.

3) Power to tolerate

Best example of this tolerance is mother. She chooses to tolerate entire life to make her children or family happy. She never complain about the troubles she is having while caring her child. Power to tolerate means your willingness to bear the pain to make something worthwhile.

"Patience is the compassion of the wisdom"

Power to tolerate will give you right perspective towards life problems. If you are willing to sacrifice your life for greater purpose then you have to bear a pain of hardship during your journey. Some times in life it is worth to tolerate for better benefits in future.

4) Power to accept

Why we are suffering all the time?

Why we are finding it difficult to deal with the problems?

What's making you suffer more?

Our resistance to situation is making us suffer more. We always have some expectations about the life. Things should go this way or that way. Whenever things go in other way ( they always go in right way) you will start offering resistance to it. You will start feeling bad about what happened against your will.

You don't have total control over life so don't try to push life hard. You have to accept the reality of situation. Once you release the burden to always win, you will not suffer anymore. Acceptance is the only way to move ahead in life. Instead if you keep on cursing life then you will stuck will same thing forever.

Power to accept will make you life more contented. Once you start accepting whatever life throws at you then you will find journey of life much more easy and interesting. Acceptance will flourish your life will joy and peace.

5) Power to discern

There will be so many instances in life where you have to make a wise choice. If you are taking decisions based on values and ethics then you will thrive on your success journey or else you will fail miserably.

Power to discern give you wisdom to make choices based on true values. Most of the decisions we take under the influence of powerful people. Those decisions are not long lasting. You discerning ability will give power to make correct choices in life.

Suppose you have company of bad friends who are addicted, then you have power to discern to understand the consequences of addictions. You have to analyze the situation based on real facts not merely on emotional basis. Our ability to make choice is mostly depend on the emotional attachments with the person.

6) Power to judge

What are the base for our judgments about the others?

Our judgments are totally depend on our mind conditionings. What we have learned from parents or what we have observed in our surrounding will influence our judgments. Society play major role in our judgements. We always want approvals from surrounding people to  be happy, so we consider that factor while making judgements.

Power to judge will give you right perspective while judging others. Don't carried away by your prejudices while making any judgments. Simply external appearance is not the base to pass on judgments. 

We mostly fail in our many endeavors due to false judgment based on some assumptions. Never ever make a mistake to judge others based on unproven factors. You have power to judge what is right or wrong for your life. Always choose values and ethics over the shortcuts and frauds.

7) Power to decide

You have power to make a decisions in life. While choosing any path in life you have to take responsibility of your life. Basically we have to make decisions at every moments in life. What you are today is because of the decisions you made in past.

Which thoughts you decide to nurture will shape your destiny. You decision power shouldn't be based on bias. Which friends you choose will decide you future. You have to make a wise decisions in life to choose only positive things.

There plethora of information available on internet, if you don't decide what to pursue then you will land up with aimless browsing. You have to wisely choose positive things in your surroundings to appreciate life.

8) Power to face

We have been blessed with the power to endure physical pain. But psychological pain is much more difficult to handle. Whenever things go wrong or not as per your desires then you have to first accept the reality and then face the problem with courage.

We all have to face the problems, we are empowered enough to handle all the life situations. Through the power of facing you will unleash you hidden potentials which you had never exposed to it.

Face you fear then death of the fear is must. We actually run away from problems which will create more pain and suffering. Real way to handle any problem is through facing it with fortitude.

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