How doubts or conflicts in mind helps to get more clarity

doubts or conflicts in mind

How doubts or conflicts in mind helps to get more clarity

This journey of doubts or conflicts has been the major factor of dissatisfaction in life. I had so many doubts or conflicts in mind, for which I was looking for answers since long time. During schooling or graduating I didn't pay much attention to these thoughts. 

As I was quite busy in studying to make  my career. After having spent couple of years in corporate life, my quest to know the answers has again gained momentum. Quite a often I was getting inner calling to know the answers and to have clarity on the doubts.

During some crucial time of work life, I had gone through the immense pain. I was unable to handle my personal and professional life. Beside that I was already having so many conflicts in mind about life which were making my life miserable. This was the turning point in my life where I had to start my journey of self discovery.

I was trying hard to manage the external circumstances to live happier life but none of them worked out quite well. I was playing the blame game, where I thoughts surrounding environment is the major cause of my unhappiness and troubles. 

So I had tried my best to suit with them but at the end it turn out to be futile. I was in continuous stage of worrying and that was affecting my immune system also. 


Why we have to always struggle to survive?

Why we can't live happier life forever?

Why we have to work to survive?

Why we always feel something missing in life?

Why we are born and what is the purpose of my life?

Beside the so many external efforts to control my worry and life struggles, I couldn't able to make out. Each of the doubts which I was having are mostly the common in nature which most of us may have.

 So I started the journey to get answers to my doubts in mind. At Initial stage I started with reading self-help books and later I got to know more about the spirituality. 

Why we have doubts or conflicts in life ?

Having doubt is the symbol of  your quest to know more about the life mystery

Most of  us live there life without giving any thoughts about life. They are so much engrossed in day to day life that they never find any need to think about the life. Most of us are more complacent who never bother to think beyond the comfort zones. Many people are more satisfied with their comfort zones where they don't want to explore more. 

Our belief systems which are formed by our upbringing has taught us to secure your life by never leaving the comfort zones. What we have been taught by our parents is that you should get some good job and get settle. That's what they have been telling you to live entire life with. Never look for beyond the boundaries of job security and personal life.

Those who are more curious or want to explore life beyond the boundaries will have doubts. If you want to make best out of your life, then you have to have that curiosity to explore different dimensions of life. 

Life has many more things to offer you but you need to look for it. If you are going through the messy thoughts about life then you are on right track to find the true meaning of life.

You are really blessed if you have doubts about the life. You have to be curious about our life then only you will be able to understand it more deeply. If you never had thoughts then you will never ever try to find the answers for you query. Having doubts is a positive sign that you are thinking beyond the boundaries set by the society and surrounding environments.

How doubts or conflicts in mind helps to get more clarity

Get more clarity about life

When I was going through this upheavals of doubts, suddenly I got some inner calling which told me to dig it deeper to know more. So I started to read and understand more about the life. Once you start your quest to know more about your deeper dimensions of life you will come across the more surprising about oneself.

Self awareness is the first step in the process of understanding life. Once you get awareness about your ignorance then you will dispel that misunderstanding in life. Everything we assume in our life are the mindset which have developed. 

What we have been experienced or taught becomes the our belief system. Only awareness can bring the change. You first need to have knowledge about your ignorance.
 
Self-discovery

While getting clarity on doubts, I came across the awareness about the self discovery. What I used to think that, whatever happens in life is because of the external forces. So I used to fight back against the external life forces. Once I had awareness that we have to look inside for all the problems, then I started my journey of self discovery.

Self discovery will help you to find solutions for all your life problems. If things are not going the way you wish it means that you need to self examine. Only by looking inside you can find answers to all you life problems.

I used to worry much about the work. I can't able to resist the thoughts of works after leaving the office. I was in continuous state of worry about the work. Initially I thought it would be because of the work load. 

So I started to blame organization for not giving the desired manpower to handle multiple activities. Despite of having supported for extra manpower my worry was not yet annihilated. 

Know I got to know that problem is not with the work but it was because of the habit of worrying always about the work. Nature of worrying or daydreaming was causing me to suffer more. Self discovery helped me to understand and look within to solve the all life problems. 


More learning and better life experience

Those we don't take any efforts to explore life will never get the knowledge. Those who accept the things as they are without having any thought about it, will never be able to understand deeper meaning of life.

 Whenever some one have doubts in mind will try to sort it out. During the journey of finding answers you will get more learning. All together this life experience will be more fascinating and knowledge gaining endeavor. 
 
More maturity and understanding

When I understood the true meaning of life then my life has changed drastically. When you limit your beliefs to your egos then you will never able to understand life deeply. Once you relish your ego then only you will be able to understand things. 

While searching for clarity I understood that we are too much engrossed in the desires. Your desires are the root cause of your suffering and pain. Once should work hard to get desired success but should overburden life to fulfill all the desires. We are here to enjoy the life but we are too much carried away by pleasures and instant gratifications.

More tolerance 

When my understanding about life got deepen, I started to behavior in more tolerant way. When I realized that what ever happens in life has the meaning. Life always wants you to explore more, so it throws the challenges and struggles. Once you get maturity you will never struggle to get away from the problem instead you will tolerate it more wisely.

Problem solving mindset 

When I realized the significance of problems in life, then my mindset towards the problem has changed. Now I look any problem as a learning opportunity, where I will explore more to my true potentials. Growth mindset always handle problems more proactively. Rather than running away from the problem I have started to grow through the suffering and pain.

More Gratitude and happiness 

I was not able to figure out how to live happy life.  Basically concept of happiness was wrongly interpreted. I used to thoughts that materialistic possession will bring you more happiness. This ignorance which dispelled from my life due to the awareness about true meaning of happiness.

Happiness is the choice which we make deliberately. We have multiple choice to either choose happiness or unhappiness out of the life situations. Those who are more grateful towards life will always prefer to choose happiness wisely. 

Those who don't want to face the reality of life will always choose unhappiness. Attitude of gratitude will make your life more contented, so always practice gratitude every morning. Morning affirmations will bring more positivity in your life.

Final Thoughts

We always have the choice to decide how we want to live our life. We are already too much conditioned by our mind that we are unable to discern between what is right and what is wrong. We are totally captivated by mind so all our decisions are getting affected due to mind disposition.

Understanding the mind is main course one should undertake to lead better life. All you conflicts or doubts are created by your thinking mind. Mind always loves to make you more uncomfortable with decision making. So while resolving the doubts you will get more clarity about your mind.

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